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HOW CAN I GROW MY BUSINESS?

Q- 'I have so many ideas for my coaching business. Can you help?'

A- 'Your resistance has fallen away quite a bit since last week.

We would continue with this...sensing into it, allowing it to come to fruition within your vibrant imagination.

Allowing it to speak to you rather than for you to design it.

And as you do that, as you stand in your knowing and allow all of the possibilities to wash over your awareness, it is reminding Ramona of the act of 'panning for gold'.

Swish, swish, swish, and the heavy bits, the valuable bits, fall to the bottom, in a place where they can very easily be seen and gathered.

They shine so brightly that they are very obvious.

Swish, swish, swish.

Very easy.

This is not pencil and compass work.

Swish, swish, swish, swish, swish.'

Q- 'Should I take action with the ideas?'

A- 'Organic, adaptive action we feel will be very satisfying to you.

Any attempt to control, to funnel at this time we believe will not be satisfying.

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What is the vibrational difference between rich people and poor people?

The vibrational essence of "worthiness," which allows wealth to flow easily into one person's life but not in another, is essentially the same "worthiness" that allows good health, loving relationships, and satisfying purpose (aka "work") to flow easily into one person's life but not another. 

So if we feel generally worthy, what creates abundance and "wanted" in one area of our lives, but not another?

Enter limiting beliefs.  All "unworthiness" stems from faulty thinking - a belief system, made up of thoughts that are thought over and over again, that declares it to be impossible for "___________ to happen for me," regardless of how many others have received it.  Just fill in the blank with the subject, it doesn't matter what it is.

So, back to the original question: what is the vibrational difference?

There is none.  When it's about money, some people are quite happy being rich, while...

This transcript is from an Opra session with clients wishing to expand their clientele and build other aspects of their business, and asking what their fees should be. 

Opra advises them keep money unattached to the equation, and to feel into the alignment of the answer, rather than to think about the question.

Opra also advises them to focus on raising their own vibrations of trust and worthiness, as they serve as role models for their clients.

WE WANT TO GROW OUR COACHING BUSINESS

Q- ‘We want to move into coaching business clients.  What should we charge?'

A- 'The energetic vibration of money feels different in the business community.  Do you agree?  [Yes]  The economy of money moving quickly from hand to hand to hand is the robust economy.  The economy of the same amount of money moving from hand to hand more slowly is a sluggish economy.

We've been talking a lot these days about loving our bodies, and how that love shows up in our lives.

But a question I get a lot is, how and where do I START loving a body about which, frankly, I can't find much to love? Every subject feels awful: weight, illness, injury, beauty, age, stretch marks, wrinkles, blemishes, yikes!

And when I look in the mirror, it feels even worse. I can tell I'm focusing on what I don't want.

One of the basic principles of Law of Attraction is to stick with subjects that feel good when practicing a new skill, rather than hammering on the topic where you feel so much resistance.

For example, in the case of our bodies, we could use a vision board, rather than a mirror. But personally, I would not use a picture of a "younger or fitter" version of myself, and not someone else's body with my face on it, as I've seen others do.

Here's a short transcript from an Opra session:

Q: How can I remove the conditions from my desires on my vision board?

A: "If we...

Jealousy can be a tough feeling to sort out, because when we are jealous we think we are looking right at one of our desires and just being "petty" about someone else having it.

But in reality, that awful feeling of jealousy means that we are looking squarely, solidly right at the LACK of that thing we want.

And in this Opra transcript, the client is feeling the effects of focusing on a lack of financial wealth. But this can apply to any subject!

While I am writing this post, I am also finishing the beta version of my new program "BodShift: The Transformation." It's a course for women who want to learn to love and transform their own bodies, and it is to be released in a few days.

As I am thinking these days so much about all aspects of our bodies, I am seeing very clearly how my own jealousy over other women's bodies played such a large part in my own body not responding the way I wanted it to.

Of course my body didn't respond well to years of negative self-talk, focus on lack, and...

Opra's client here has taken a stand with family that many of us hesitate to do, even with friends or colleagues.  The choice was to discontinue contact with one member, temporarily.

When we choose our own happiness over the demands of others - even close family members - it's easy to feel out of our comfort zone.  We can have a lot of "split energy" - where we feel high vibration and low vibration together - yes and no, happy and sad.

That's understandable. While we care about the person, we also know that we can't care abut what they think, feel, say, or do.  Since we can't control them, it doesn't make sense to try to care about their behavior. 

But if  we know we are not managing our vibration well on this subject, the path of least resistance can often be to break off contact until we can get a hold of our own vibration.

And often our beloved "bystanders" will rush in to tell us how wrong we are, that we are "hurting" the family, that we are cruel,...

This transcript is from a session with a client who had recently visited a family member to hold the newest addition to the family, and was overwhelmed by a sense of loving connection that was totally unexpected and unprecedented.

Opra refers to "your baby" - meaning the client's inner child, who had been the topic of much discussion and healing in past sessions.  The client had committed (set an intention) to "protect" their own inner baby from upstream ("negative") internal dialogue that was a lifelong habit.

WHY DO BABIES FEEL GOOD?

Q- ‘Why does holding the baby feel so good?’

A- ‘Your baby, which still exists inside of you, which you made a commitment to protect and nurture sometime back, do you remember?  Your baby and every baby are the same.  You are connecting at the baby level because your baby vibration is now open.

This session was with a client who was definitely feeling the effects of Covid-19, both in a personal way, as well as in the wilder energy currents palpably circulating the planet, disrupting and replacing the older, slower currents.

As we seek to control the conditions in our lives, it can feel like the sandy ocean floor as we stand in the shallow surf.  As the huge amounts of water move past us, in and out, the sand can literally disappear beneath our feet.  The desire for stability is understandable, but as we experiment even a little bit with it, we discover that we can float, swim, play and jump, and the ocean bottom is always there to catch us.

MY ENERGY FEELS TURBULENT

Q- 'I am feeling a lot of turbulence in my life.'

A- 'The unwanted, your perception of the unwanted, as getting bigger, is purely about your very natural attempts to stabilize within the turbulence.

RAMPAGE OF WELL-BEING

Q- 'So with the Coronavirus, I am without a job. So all I need to do now is raise my vibration?'

A- 'Absolutely.'

Q- 'So I keep immersing myself in a new story?'

A- 'Yes, as you are meditating, as you are taking whatever walks you are allowed to take now, out in nature as much as possible, as you are taking a long hot bath, as you are enjoying your life, and as you are purposefully raising your vibration, as you find yourself in those higher vibrations, cultivate that belief, welcome it in, intend, say:

‘I love the idea of thinking, of knowing, of believing, that everything that I need and want is coming to me right now, that I don’t need to do anything at all to deserve it.

I love knowing that.

I love thinking about it.

I love savoring that concept.

I love allowing myself to believe this.

I love trusting this.

I love feeling into my inner being right now and feeling the truth of this.

Knowing that this has always been true.

This is true for...