What Does Resistance Look Like?
Opra and I both get asked this question a lot: what exactly do you mean by “resistance?” And what does it look like, specifically? Also, how do I know I’ve got it?
Great questions! And I will answer them. But first, a quick and necessary reminder:
Don’t focus on it! LOL!
I know, crazy, right? I can hear you saying “I’ve got resistance, and you’re telling me how important it is to ‘let it go,’ but not to focus on it??!!”
When you notice it, you might think or talk just a bit (for a few seconds!) about what it looks like and how it feels, and then the goal is always to take your focus off of it and focus on something – anything – that’s more pleasant, anything that’s more in line with what you want. And that means from then on.
Don’t go back and dredge it back up again. Stop talking about it. Stop posting about it. Don’t join any support groups about it!...
HOW CAN I GROW MY BUSINESS?
Q- 'I have so many ideas for my coaching business. Can you help?'
A- 'Your resistance has fallen away quite a bit since last week.
We would continue with this...sensing into it, allowing it to come to fruition within your vibrant imagination.
Allowing it to speak to you rather than for you to design it.
And as you do that, as you stand in your knowing and allow all of the possibilities to wash over your awareness, it is reminding Ramona of the act of 'panning for gold'.
Swish, swish, swish, and the heavy bits, the valuable bits, fall to the bottom, in a place where they can very easily be seen and gathered.
They shine so brightly that they are very obvious.
Swish, swish, swish.
This is not pencil and compass work.
Swish, swish, swish, swish, swish.'
Q- 'Should I take action with the ideas?'
A- 'Organic, adaptive action we feel will be very satisfying to you.
Any attempt to control, to funnel at this time we believe will not be satisfying.
What is the vibrational difference between rich people and poor people?
The vibrational essence of "worthiness," which allows wealth to flow easily into one person's life but not in another, is essentially the same "worthiness" that allows good health, loving relationships, and satisfying purpose (aka "work") to flow easily into one person's life but not another.
So if we feel generally worthy, what creates abundance and "wanted" in one area of our lives, but not another?
Enter limiting beliefs. All "unworthiness" stems from faulty thinking - a belief system, made up of thoughts that are thought over and over again, that declares it to be impossible for "___________ to happen for me," regardless of how many others have received it. Just fill in the blank with the subject, it doesn't matter what it is.
So, back to the original question: what is the vibrational difference?
There is none. When it's about money, some people are quite happy being rich, while...
I HAVE A BIG VISION
Q: I have a big vision
A: “This vision is already reality, is well underway. Doubting this fact will only slow down the process.”
Q: So I should just trust it? And I don't need to keep being embarrassed? By the size of my vision? Because my vision is huge...
A: “The resistance you are calling embarrassment, is simply a habitual response, learned early. You may let this go. Slowing down something that feels like a big vision does serve one positive purpose. It keeps you from getting into too much detail. If you are consciously choosing and intending and focusing on the general, as long as it feels good, only adding detail as it feels good, backing off the detail at the slightest hint of resistance, you will not need the embarrassment anymore.”
Q: Right. The only detail is the detail basically right here that feels yummy, either in a fantasy version just cuz it's fun, or in a 'oh, I have a phone call to make' way. But not next year's phone...
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