Opra's client here has taken a stand with family that many of us hesitate to do, even with friends or colleagues. The choice was to discontinue contact with one member, temporarily.
When we choose our own happiness over the demands of others - even close family members - it's easy to feel out of our comfort zone. We can have a lot of "split energy" - where we feel high vibration and low vibration together - yes and no, happy and sad.
That's understandable. While we care about the person, we also know that we can't care abut what they think, feel, say, or do. Since we can't control them, it doesn't make sense to try to care about their behavior.
But if we know we are not managing our vibration well on this subject, the path of least resistance can often be to break off contact until we can get a hold of our own vibration.
And often our beloved "bystanders" will rush in to tell us how wrong we are, that we are "hurting" the family, that we are cruel,...
MY COUNTRY IS SUFFERING
Q- 'I am in a country where there is severe poverty. During lockdown, people have no food, water and transport. Children are dying. What can I do?'
A-'We understand the environment, your circumstances, the things that you are focusing on, are quite compelling.
They are quite compelling, and in your physical status, your physical state, you feel the pull, you feel the draw. We understand.
However, you cannot get sad enough to help these people, no matter how sad you get, you cannot get sad enough to help them.
Do not misunderstand our words to others [in the group] about the benefits and positive aspects of some types of fear and anger. They do not apply at the lower vibrations.
Sadness, hopelessness, despair, anger, such as you are describing is a very... they are all very low vibrations. You cannot help anyone from those low vibrations.
If we were in your physical shoes, we would do everything we could to raise our own vibration before even remotely...